You can add toys already using the action editor. Just got to Custom | Equipment.
We wanted to provide the ability to add custom clothing but it is somewhat impractical because the game needs information about the relationship of each clothing item to each other clothing item.
If there are clothing items you would like to see added, please let us know an we will make sure they are in the next release.
You mentioned "If there are clothing items you would like to see added, please let us know an we will make sure they are in the next release. thanks, Don"
Last time my wife and I played, she got dress up in a sleeveless dress and a shawl cover(I think that is the right term; a large scarf used as an over the shoulder wrap). I used a sweater in the clothing editor, but if you are adding items this is my suggestion.