Well, the word "masturbation" itself causes her to cringe-mostly because of religious reasons/how she was brought up. So I changed that to "stimulate yourself" or "rub yourself" etc... It's taken her a lot of time to get to the place where she would even consider self-stimulation or touching herself "there," and even now it's very little of it. In general, I've gone through most of the actions I've dloaded and just checked for the "very" graphic language and lightened it up a little for us. Usually, in the heat of the moment she doesn't mind, but if she's not in "that" mood, then it puts her off. So I just double check things... Thanks though, they're good actions.
We've really enjoyed the program itself because it has really helped us open up to each other regarding sexual issues and the first time we played the game she really surprised me with what she was willing to do or atleast try once. So, it's helped us identify a whole new set of boundaries and hopefully will continue to do so in the near future.