My wife and I agreed to give this game a try after realizing our first anniversary wasn't going to be action packed (due to financial strain, we couldn't afford many activities outside the hotel). Hoping this game would give us some fun times for years to come, we paid out the $$$ (including an expansion pack). Nearly every turn, we found the actions very awkward--and we stuck with it for a couple hours (ranging in levels from warm to nuclear). About the only thing we enjoyed were the massages.

Maybe it was the lack of alcohol. XD (We don't drink.)
Anyway, all in all it was rather disappointing and we found our selves strongly regretting using what money we had available on this game.
It looks like a lot of people have enjoyed the game, however. I've read a few of the success stories on this forum, for example. But I guess I just wanted to caution that it's not necessarily for everyone.
Different strokes for different folks right?